As sports run year-round, the busy season never ends. For many parents, this means navigating a schedule filled with practices and games. As a youth soccer coach, I have seen firsthand the crucial role parents play in their children’s sports experiences. Here are a few things that your child’s coach wants you to know so the season is a positive and productive environment for everyone involved.
Encouragement over Pressure
One of the most important roles you have as a parent is to be a source of encouragement. Athletes thrive on positive reinforcement. Celebrate their improvements and effort rather than just their victories. Avoid placing unnecessary pressure on them to perform. Remember, the main goal is for them to enjoy the sport and develop a lifelong love for sport.
Trust the Process
Coaches have a plan and a vision for the team. Trust that we are making decisions in the best interest of the group as a whole. This includes playing time, positions, and strategies. While everyone wants their child to have a starring role, remember that every position and every player is vital to the team’s success. Encourage your child to embrace their role and give their best effort, no matter where they are on the field or on the sidelines.
Communication is Key
If you have concerns or questions about your child’s experience, please communicate with us directly. However, timing and approach matter.
Avoid discussing issues immediately after a game when emotions are running high. Instead, request a meeting where the player, parents, and coach can communicate. Constructive feedback and conversations are always welcome.
Support Their Independence
Part of the value of sports is learning independence and responsibility. Let your child take ownership of their athletic journey. This means allowing them to communicate directly with the coach about their concerns or aspirations. It is so important for young athletes to learn to advocate for themselves, especially if they want to continue at higher levels.
This also means encouraging them to pack their own gear, manage their schedule, and take responsibility for their commitments.
Understand the Commitment
Sports require a significant commitment from both athletes and their families. Be prepared to support your child through this, whether it’s ensuring they get to practices on time, helping them maintain a balanced diet, or encouraging them to get enough rest. Recognize that your involvement and support are crucial to their success and enjoyment of the sport.
Respect for All Involved
Respect is fundamental in creating a positive sports environment. This includes respect for the coaches, referees, other players, and other parents. Parents should always have good sportsmanship and model respectful behavior from the sidelines. Negative comments or actions can quickly deter the positive environment we are trying to maintain.
Balancing Academic and Sport
While sports are important, academics should always come first. Help your child find a balance between their athletic commitments and their schoolwork. This might mean helping them create a schedule that allows time for homework, study, and rest. A balanced approach makes sure they excel both on and off the field.
Enjoy the Journey
Finally, enjoy the journey. Sports are about much more than winning and losing. They teach valuable life skills such as teamwork, perseverance, and grit. Celebrate the small victories along the way – whether it’s mastering a new skill, showing good sportsmanship, or simply having fun with friends. Being the parent of an athlete is a unique and rewarding experience. By understanding and embracing these tools, you can help create a positive and supportive environment for your athlete.
Ella is a Public Relations Student at Mount Royal University, who aspires to have a career in sports relations. She is a student-athlete who plays soccer for MRU and has a passion for the game both on and off the pitch.
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